21 year old dating 30 year old

If they still support you, you need to respect whatever rules they might have.

You’re old enough that hopefully you’ll be on your own soon and you can do whatever you want. While your age difference isn’t necessarily “taboo,” it is big enough that it could potentially cause a lot of problems.

She was the one who things happened to, the starting point of every story. He, in turn, went to find my friend and her boyfriend, who were none too pleased at having to leave so soon after we got there. Hearing that he wanted more felt like wading into the deep end. had feelings for me, I felt strange every time I saw him.

I was the oracle, remembering each detail from my supporting role. I was causing trouble, making things difficult for everyone."What happened to you back there? Just like that, you lose your footing, and you're in over your head. He noticed my sudden distance and pouted, unsettling to see in an adult.

If you’re reading this and wondering what your value is, it’s already too late. Of course she wants to laugh with you, but she needs to see your serious side as well.

She will care that you’ve been in the same job for the last 8 years and she’ll be impressed that you have a 401K.

If your parents are willing to meet him, you can introduce them so they can see for themselves what he’s like.

I understand that age differences become less of a big deal when you’re in your 20-somethings, but I’m not.You can’t run “I’m gonna” game – she knows it’s bullshit.Generally, 31-year-olds are more analytical and they’ve gotten to a point in their lives where they’re not willing to “just have fun.” They’ve got skin in the game and if you don’t live up, you’ll get knocked out in a few seconds.He’s a good man, who takes good care of me, is well-educated and has a good job.I hope to tell my parents soon about him, but the problem is that they’re rather old-fashioned and conservative.

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