Building friendship before dating
We explored “9 Reasons to Date Your Best Friend” and a whopping 80% of our readers said they'd be willing to give it a try. If you really are friends then whatever happens, you two can communicate and weather the storm. You can write a handwritten note or card, or buy a small present that shows you were thinking of them.
Love is a delicate thing and building any loving relationship takes time. One of the best ways to show you care is by asking, “What can I do for you to help you feel appreciated and loved?
But, when I respond to her with your very kind hearted beautiful lady. However; there is the challenge.......is that I do believe that in our society it is still more acceptable for the man to make the first move than that woman.
This is truly a shame because there are so many missed opportunities out there.
Being open about your emotions will relieve any worry and also help you to create an emotional bond on a deeper level. However, you might not know this person’s hopes and dreams in terms of getting married, having a family and building a life together with someone.
Sometimes we think we know someone better than we actually do. If that’s the case, you need to be reintroduced as a couple. We live in an age where everything moves so fast that we expect instantaneous gratification or we get bored. We need to have patience to let a relationship grow at its own pace.
Family who may have only thought of you as a friend need to know that your status has changed. They are usually in close proximity to each other at social events and gatherings and they seem to enjoy each other’s company. Some friendships will develop into a relationship at a tortoise’s pace.
I am in my mid fifties and have always been very shy and was married for 30 years to my 1st and only girlfriend.
Now that I am trying to date after 30 years I am having real hard time with it.