Crush someone dating someone else

But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions?

Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist based in San Francisco, to help us out with the details.

Plus, you may find Caleb extra attractive since he’s so vulnerable right now.

He’s really leaning on you in this difficult time, and you may be feeling drawn to him because it feels nice to be needed.

Caleb just broke up with his girlfriend and has been turning to me for a shoulder to cry on.

I’ve been finding myself feeling very attracted to him, which makes me feel terrible.

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Now, onto this week’s topic: what to do when you have a crush on someone else and you're thinking about cheating.

But I wish I didn't ever feel this way, because I know my bf won't change and I don't want crushes on every affectionate person I meet The minute someone develops a crush on someone else while in a relationship, I would say that they should start looking deep into their relationship and figure out what is lacking that they would start crushing on someone else.

[QUOTE=MJ23;3220799]This is great advice, and this is what I was worried about.

I would not trivialize a crush by saying "oh, it's normal".

No it is not normal, it is not healthy and it does a grave disservice to your relationship because your mind is thinking of someone else and is excited to see someone else, not your partner.

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