Dating parent personals single
We have explicitly developed and refined systems for guaranteeing physical health, dealing with consent, screening new attendees for fit, and so on. We have hundreds of members, and I’m very proud of the culture, the extreme respect that members feel for each other, and an atmosphere that everyone praises as being safe, consent-based, and accepting.
We now have several hundred members and if this were an activity that could be done above board, I would be trying to turn it into an actual business.
Based on their response, I wouldn’t be surprised if the parental interference was requested, but it just comes off so wildly unprofessional it’s really soured us on a person who was good but not great and turned them into a never-ever. That means that (a) the chances that they’ll respond well to this heads-up are significantly lower than with a polite/professional candidate, and (b) there’s no incentive here for you to go out of your way to try to do them a favor.
Plus, it sounds like the parent would hear about this and go back to your CEO about it, and I suspect your CEO doesn’t want to deal with that.
The factors ranged from the environment to the mix of personalities, body types, and preferences.
The field I work in is extremely small and competitive and knowing the right people really does take you far. Definitely email her and let you know that you’ve applied for the job and would love to talk with her about it if she thinks you’re a strong match for it.
I was going to shoot her an email to reconnect, update her, and ask if we could talk over the phone regarding the job. But don’t just ask for a phone call to discuss it — that’s pretty much an attempt to jump ahead in their selection process.
But if you’re asked for details — or worse, a reference connected to your work there — you’re going to quickly get into territory that requires you either to lie or to make your interviewer very uncomfortable.
I know that’s crappy, but I can’t see a way around it. Should I tell a rejected candidate that their parent protested our hiring decision?