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The only "advice" I have is try to engineer your life so that you have a group of friends you see every day and new people you talk to regularly - but I totally understand that not everyone has the means to do that.But it's fundamentally misguided when men start attributing this to in the dating world.Straight men frequently get very little positive attention, and a lot of being ignored. Plenty of awful people are surrounded by love and support and adoration and sex.Plenty of great people spend days, weeks, months involuntary alone and lonely without talking to a soul.After all the advice and support that applies to a lonely single man is seriously not that different from the advice and support that applies to a lonely single people in general - there is such at thing as "men's issues" but being lonely or having trouble dating is a universal. it is to date, women still find the strength to power through and find those additional partners.

Her world is much smaller), but most of women - as in, poly women, who tend to put themselves out there boldly, who date, who generally have active social lives involving occasional moments of vulnerability around strangers in a way that men take for granted, have to face all of this awfulness.Again, I realize that dating is hard for some men, just like it's hard for many people in general.But, to cite one's heterosexual male identity as the main contributer to the problem, or to act like women have it easy in comparison, is an act of throwing a group of people who in reality have it way worse than you completely under the bus when you should be in solidarity with them.Whether you're man, woman, or non-binary, straight or queer, dating can be difficult, often for reasons which are outside your control such as attractiveness, location, etc - especially when you're part of a marginalized group and/or making socially marginalized relationship choices, such as polyamory.But there's been an awful lot of "what about the men" discourse here lately. And it's usually not your fault either - I don't like how people claim like if you somehow were a better person you'd get more attention.

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