Dating the same girl
My situations were worst then you, But almost same like you. And one day i told him(my best friend) that if you commit on to a relationship then please keep her happy because i just wanted her to be happy, whether its with me or without me. I thought changing the college might prevent me from thinking about her, but, as a result, i got negative conclusion. Till that time the guy ( My best friend) became her close friend too.TODAY I FEEL, IF I TRIED MY BEST ( for happiness ) MAY BE SHE COULD HAVE BEEN MINE. Life is too short, and you will get this life only once,(no one is permanent, neither your best friend, nor your crush) so chase your happiness. I would say, don't back off, try your best, because - for the girl, Your friend may be better, but you are the best according to me. Express her your feelings, go for a Date and spend some quality time with her. You are not selfish, nor meaningful, because you not only think about the girl, but you even think about your friend. So if your just a friend of her, try to become her best & good friend. While you can't apply a one-size-fits-all response to sexual dating rules regardless of age or experience, professionals who have studied the topic say it is a good idea to develop a set of prudent dating rules - before the big date.By and large, Allen and other relationship experts endorse a cautious approach to the dating rules of sex.
Mc Clary believes all daters should invest the same amount of time conducting these 'self' conversations about personal dating rules as they do primping before a big date.
She also says the conversation, like the primping, should happen at the same time -- before that big date.
"Think about your sexual boundaries before you've had that first drink," Mc Clary advises.
While a dating partner may not welcome this news, it at least can minimize later disappointments.
So, too, does an up-front conversation about sexually transmitted diseases (STDs).