Internet dating bad for self esteem
It was going to be my last go at actively looking to meet someone. He figured I wouldn't be interested im him so he never reached out to me. Red, anyone that has to knock you in their first message to you should probably take a good look in the mirror. The only thing you can do is accept the quick judgments, even though they may possibly have no basis in reality.
I agree though, she probably thought I was out of her league so her approach was going to be to be nasty to me (beacause noooo one's nasty to me) and hope I had a different reaction. She's just bitter because she's a stripper and has strangers putting dirty dollar bills in her thong. The online world distorts things to such a degree that I believe some highly-compatible couples fail to meet because of these erroneous first impressions.
When you see an attractive woman in real life do you approach her as a prospective SO?Forget the self esteem aspect, develope a thick skin, send your message and forget about it.If you get a response and it's not what you were hoping for...forget about it. I think we try to sell ourselves to too many people...in reality your actions speak the sales pitch...a good woman will recognize and appreciate you for the good things you bring to the table...hopefully you take the time to research who she is before falling off the cliff ...all know that fall and sometimes the rough landing at the bottom. Just because we arent a match doesnt mean they arent good people.