My ex girlfriend is dating someone new
You claim to be confused, LJ, but really, that’s a smokescreen. She said she wanted to break up and she gave him her reason. All they do is talk and spend time together, which he clearly wants to do as well.
You need to recognize that a woman who loves you doesn’t date another guy, a woman who cares about you doesn’t keep you on the hook after you break up, a woman who wants you physically doesn’t keep things platonic. Even when she talks about a hypothetical future, she’s careful to not say they will definitely be married to each other. I’m all for not seeing her anymore to concentrate on meeting other women that can give him what he wants, give him time to grieve the loss of the relationship he thought he had, but I don’t get why he should be angry.
It might cause you to ask yourself: how do I deal with her moving on? If you see her together with someone else, you might think your world will cease to exist. The key is to allow yourself to feel sad once in a while, but not let it determine the course of your life. Right now, I want you to make a promise to yourself.
And yet you ignore all this evidence and claim to be confused about your relationship. It doesn’t seem to me like she’s doing anything really over the top.
I hope, after reading this, that you’re no longer confused.
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