Smart guys dating dumb girls

There's something about being smart that makes some guys unwilling to accept input, ideas, or instruction from anyone who isn't either as smart or smarter than them. and if you don't have good social skills, you dramatically lower your chances for success with women.

Well, any SMART GUY can see the folly in this particular approach... If you've been making this mistake, then you need to STOP IT. and let them teach you how to get what you REALLY want. Smart guys do something that fascinates the hell out of me...

and not worth the time it would take to learn them. They use their amazing creative imaginations to imagine all kinds of horrible pictures and scenes...

In fact, I believe that there are a lot of smart guys running around this planet who don't even have "social skills" and "be a cool guy that people like" in their "MENTAL MODEL" of what it could possibly take to be successful with women and dating. and then they use those imaginary outcomes to create negative emotions... So what do smart guys do when it comes to overcoming a problem with women? They think the answer lies in learning just ONE MORE TECHNIQUE... Well what if there were a situation in life where the "get more information" strategy actually made things WORSE?

You know that you're a little different than other guys.

You probably realized at a young age that you saw things differently, and thought differently than others in school...

After contemplating this particular paradox, discussing it, and working on it for an awesome amount of time, I'd like to share my thoughts about it with you.

I assume that if you've read this far, then you probably see yourself as smarter than the average guy.

On the other hand, if you start talking to a woman and you say "OK, so tell me something...

Ultimately, many smart guys come up with the following logical conclusion: I AM A SMART GUY, THEREFORE IF I CAN'T FIGURE OUT HOW TO BE SUCCESSFUL WITH WOMEN AND DATING, THEN THE PROBLEM MUST NOT BE SOLVABLE OR WORTH SOLVING. In short, many smart guys refuse to accept that a good, solid, workable answer could come from someone "dumber" than them, so they discount any idea that comes from an "obviously less intelligent person" before trying it.

Let me ask you a question: If you were going to be walking across Africa on foot, would you rather have your guide be the guy on this planet with the highest I. but who grew up being chased by lions and all kinds of animals that wanted to eat him all his life? Now, hopefully you'd like to have the guide who isn't the smartest guy around...

Smart people get used to being "right", because they usually ARE right.

And when you're RIGHT more often than others, you can get ahead in many situations.

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